Commitment??

Have you known this person for a while now?
Do you and your partner establish the desire and willingness to get into an honest relationship?

Well, then this is a reasonable stage of compatibility that should exist between any couple. Perhaps it is the right time to commit to a warm relationship.

We are probably not very clear about what the term “commitment” means in today’s scenario.Commitment towards your love is not just about getting married or saying the three difficult words very easily.

The deeper and true meaning would be to take your relationship seriously with great responsibility and agree with complete willingness to share the rest of your life with your partner in every way. This would involve a lot of other things which one should be more than happy to fulfill. Your full support in the growth and development of your partner’s life and to be there no matter what the situation is. More importantly, it is about being together protecting the alliance in order to remain happy forever.

When a marriage works in this way, it certainly becomes simpler to see why a relationship can end in a rewarding manner with a win-win attitude especially when to win, are teamwork and no more an individual attempt.

Another thing that is to be realized is the fact that the keyword “commitment” is a revelation of the utmost honor and tribute of love. This signifies the importance of the couple in one another’s life. To cherish this commitment and build the foundation of your relationship is the most crucial thing to do.

Everything else seems so perfect as you are born with those relations. This is the only relationship where you get to choose whom you want. This is an opportunity through which you will give way to lot of other pleasant things to follow.

Spotlight.....on?

Isn’t it important to understand oneself before trying to understand others?

It seems easy to say this but when you attempt to grow in your relationship or pay attention to what you need to be fulfilled as an individual, it is important to talk to yourself.

Perhaps it is the right time to identify how you behave with yourself, how you are being when you are with yourself!

So, any idea how honest you are to yourself? This is when you are responsible for your deeds and you do not blame your partner. This is also the same time when you stop justifying for what is impractical and work on different things.

While practicing honesty in relationship, you might end up not compromising on things that you did all the time; whether it is waiting long hours to see him/her or sleeping late talking on phone.

But wait! Isn’t it supposed to be the other way round in a true relationship which is you love to wait for that one important person in your life and can go on and on talking over the phone. These tiny little things in life give pleasure. Don’t they?

It definitely makes sense when it is a relationship that looks forward to survive. You might not be able to fix others but you can fix yourself. Think about it!

How much is too much?

How much is too much? This a something we all must have thought atleast once in our life. The difference is that this phrase applies to many things whether it be paying for some products and giving services but today I thought about it in terms of emotional attachments.

















How many times have I asked for too much in my relationships ? Should I even expect anything in the first place? Do I give it back when I am asked to or expected to?
Jees, lot of questions!

I realised that I was asking the wrong people all the time. there is nothing called "too much" in a relationship if the other person is not a stranger. Sometimes, we feel that even after knowing the person in and out, they still remain to be strangers for life. The difficult part is to identify the thin line between whom you know and whom you "think" you know.